Mental Toughness: The Resonant Leadership Pendulum in Today’s World
In the realm of sports, mental toughness isn’t merely a concept – it’s a north star that guides champions to play at a high level through distraction. It’s the art of not only braving challenges but emerging stronger. As Morin (2020) beautifully suggests, it’s the unshakable assurance that you’ll weather any storm.
I would like to see a world where mental strength radiates more vibrantly. I say this because I believe mental toughness is as important as compassion. I also believe that leadership should be like a pendulum that swings freely between the two. This is also the description of resonant leadership (i.e., leaders adjust their leadership to synchronize with the varying needs of their followers).
Envision leaders who are virtuosos with their leadership, demonstrating and inspiring behaviors that swing like a pendulum between unwavering strength and compassionate understanding. Just as a pendulum’s harmony marks the rhythm of time, resonant leadership inspires growth and best performances. The question echoes: Is toughness still a vital chord in today’s complex composition?
Is there a need for toughness in today’s landscape? Gabay (2020) has suggested that a growing number of our society harbor hypersensitivity, having major reactions to minor slights. A mindset not of resilience, but victimhood. They have a sense of moral elitism, project aggression, and draw lines between ‘them’ and ‘us’, weaving an intricate tapestry of division.
Yet, this mosaic of fragility is no single brushstroke; it’s woven from a multitude of threads. This victimhood mindset manifests out of childhood attachment, societal reward, the intoxicating allure of power, third-party enablers, along with individualistic and entitlement culture (Campbell & Manning 2019).
Just as every intricate brushstroke requires careful consideration, so do the pathways toward fortitude. There’s no easy formula, for these solutions are as multifaceted as the quandaries they address.
I think we should do the following: Help those who feel slighted and who bear the weight of grievances differentiate between the ugliness that life can bring and genuine unfairness that requires action. Trade the allure of ego’s applause for the enlightenment of knowledge. Teach the balance of grit and tenacity with the realization that life doesn’t promise a lottery win for all. Create sanctuaries where accountability isn’t a burden but a beacon for growth. Unveil the complexity of trivialities and minor slights, dissuading personalization of minor wounds. And, when shadows grow long, be the guiding star that refers those who need it to professionals who can help them heal.
In the grand tapestry of our existence, toughness is an important hue, painted alongside compassion, responsibility, and understanding. It’s the art of winning ugly and flourishing amidst adversity. It is the melody of resilience playing through the ages. It’s one of my favorite songs. I hope we all sing it more often.
~ Tim
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